13 August 2012

Life Coaching ourselves with Love into Light

Hi dear readers,

Well as we all settle down, post the first 2012 London Olympics (as the Paralympics is still to come) all talk is now about the legacy.  In my last post I spoke of aspirations, ambitions and goals.  It would be great if as many people as possible came out of this feeling renewed in these aspects of self.

Above is the Fire Mandala from Love & Light Angel Cards: an apt image for this time of Leo, Sun and Fire energy: the 111 and 11:11 of healing through self-empowerment and regaining passion for life and for our work.  See the White Fire at the centre?  This is the Fire That Does Not Burn, that forms the leaves of the Sacred Eden Tree (believed to be the same as the Burning Bush of the Bible), and when we are One with Sacred Eden Tree it shines from us also - this is true empowerment.....

Unless we really take them on board, too many things we are simply shown on TV, truly wonderful as they are, will then pass us by.  Although if we see 222 it means that the opportunity is there for us to change our own lives - if we so choose and are prepared to work at it.  What we can do is to use our admiration of others to take a decision (333 urges this if you are seeing it) to take control of our lives, and turn this current inspiration to achieve that has been demonstrated by others like our athletes (won with hard work rather than quick fixes, and I am all for that, as readers and students know!) into our own reality?

If we are a bit stuck, rather than just shrug our shoulders, we can use Life Coaching to aid us with either large or small life goals, and I defy any of you readers to tell me that you have no goals....! 

When the angels hijacked me from my management consulting business, and before the first angel cards (Harmony) and book idea took shape, I trained and did some Life and Business Coaching with people, and I promise you that it does really work.  Okay it's quite difficult, but so are most things worth attaining.

You can coach yourself if you are an organised person - you do need to be quite self-disciplined - or you can begin the process yourself and get a friend or loved one to help you reach the Action Plan target(s).  You do need the goal or goals, some stamina and plenty of detemination, exactly as you would need to have become an Olympic or any other medal winning athlete.

Here is what you do:
  • Decide your goal.  This can be large, in which case break it down into smaller goals.  Or it can be a small goal if you think this is easier, depending on your personality.  We will keep this session relevant to Mind, Body and Spirit, so for example: let's say you trained in a healing modality and you want to get a small healing and teaching business going for yourself.
  • Decide how to get there.  Accept the fact that at the beginning you are not known by many folks as a healer, and although the angels and Ascended Masters will help you with healees, you have to do some hard work first yourself!  It doesn't just happen....and you cannot just leave it to the Light Beings.
So here is what you could do in terms of Life/Business Coaching (the 4-Point GROW model):
  • Goal: 
    • To get clients for healing and/or students to teach
  • Reality: 
    • You are not known yet, you need to market yourself.  
  • Options: 
  • Step 1 decide where you are going to do your work
    • Organise something for this, either at home if you can or research costs of, say, a room at a therapy clinic. or other suitable venue 
    • Ensure you have the tools you need to do it (i.e. couch for full healings, suitable room for teaching etc.)
    • Set some dates up if you are teaching, giving yourself plenty of time.
  • Step 2 is marketing yourself, so people know about you.
    • Get yourself some cards printed - this can be quite cheap, and is an essential step
    • Find an MBS Fair that has the right feel about it, and in the first instance, go there and look around at the stands, the people running them, those attending, etc. to get a feel for this: it's market intelligence.
    • See which stands are the most popular and observe why.
    • Chat up some people behind stands, if you can and if you are not in direct competition with them; most people are quite helpful.  Give out cards.
    • Decide if you want to invest in a stand at the next one of these events.  You could give short healing demonstrations, for a small fee (free ones don't really work very well in my experience, as people don't value them much).  You can give out cards as well as print flyers giving details of your offerings.  This gets your information out there.  Organise a clipboard for interested people to fill in their e-mail addresses.  This is your embryo mailing list.
    • Consider a simple web page, so that people with your cards can look up you and your offerings.  Even if it's just a one page Blog you can start to get interested followers. 
    • Google MBS groups in your area and offer to give a talk on your healing and teaching.  Don't be nervous about it.  The Light Beings will aid you, if this is your soul purpose.  
    • At such talks, again give out cards and take e-mail addresses.  Your mailing list grows.
  •  Step 3 is determining/overcoming what may be preventing you from any of the above steps 
    • List each of the obstacles you need to overcome, in order to progress all the above steps.
    • List how you can realistically overcome these obstacles
    • Set yourself timescales for overcoming each of them
  • What will you do? 
    • Go back to your Goal or Goals and create a mini Action Plan for yourself: the Goal, the steps you need, overcoming obstacles in the way, a timescale for attaining.
    • Get on with following your Action Plan!!!  What are you waiting for?

This artwork is of Pachdiel, from the Love & Light set, and concerns establishing oneself in strength and promoting the message of Oneness, self-healing (Heart Quest) and aiding others to heal (Soul Quest) throughout the Four Corners of Mother Earth.  How fitting that is....from the Gold of empowerment of solar chakra, outward through root, heart and crown into the Violet of Transmutation that returns All to purity.

I hope this is helpful to you, dear readers, why not let me know....but if you now see a white angel feather, whilst thinking about this information, or else 111, 222 or 333 appear to you, then definitely you should follow this advice from me and the angels!

Sending angel blessings and sparkles,

Angela x


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